How to get rid of my Labia Minora/Saggy vagina lips?

So I'm 14 years old and a virgin... Many guys have wanted to finger me and do more than that but I won't because I'm ashamed of my Labia Minora. -I rarely masturbate, so I'm not sure how my lips got so stretched out -Are there any home remedies to get rid of it? (exercises, creams, etc) -I'm... show more So I'm 14 years old and a virgin... Many guys have wanted to finger me and do more than that but I won't because I'm ashamed of my Labia Minora.
-I rarely masturbate, so I'm not sure how my lips got so stretched out
-Are there any home remedies to get rid of it? (exercises, creams, etc)
-I'm on birth control if that helps
-I mostly just want to fix it for my own confidence, not the boys
ANY SUGGESTIONS PLEASE?
Update: Also, is it normal?
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