Why is this girl so racist? Can a girl tell if i am mad at her?

Why is this girl so racist? Can a girl tell if i am mad at her? i know this one from my gym she's iranian and i'm east asian(we've had conflicts etc...and an up and down acquiantanship over the last few years(i thought she was being racist so i just went off on her a few times))and when she gets... show more Why is this girl so racist?
Can a girl tell if i am mad at her?
i know this one from my gym she's iranian and i'm east asian(we've had conflicts etc...and an up and down acquiantanship over the last few years(i thought she was being racist so i just went off on her a few times))and when she gets anywhere near an area(first time i didn't make eye contact) i am in i will just leave....i saw her in the hall way and just politely nodded.And then she tried to workout in the same area again(and i didn't nake eye contact) and i just walked to the other side of the room.What message am i givinghere here?I'm confused of why she would try to be in the same area when i am walking away at first....Thta was about 2 months ago(around thanksgiving time..),now she just avoids interaction with me all together....and i don't even make eye contact with her...i just don't know how to handle all of it.And if i should just at least say hi or something...even when she is on her way out,she will look at me on the treadmill while she is walking out.It's a weird situation/almost like we are working around each other when we workout...now months later i finally saw her again...she walked by and we made eye contact and didn't say ANYthing to each other .It was an akward moment.....It is losangeles where it is hard to trust people.But at that moment it felt bad,like i was given a taste of a brush off...what's the deal.?I dunno how she can be so devoid of emotion when we went through a bunch stuff...is it because i was brushing her off as well?she invested all that energy to make an effort and now this?i shouldn't be so sensitive about it, but for some reason i am.It's like i am mad at her and subconsciously have a crush...even if i don't want to
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