What you're conversing approximately is classic feminism. the thought a woman might desire to discover satisfaction in lifestyles and not employing a husband and kinfolk became a feminist suited of the 'first wave' feminists of the nineteenth century. regrettably, it fairly isn't any longer what cutting-facet feminism is approximately. cutting-facet feminsim is predicated on the pernicious thought it fairly is needed to 'have all of it' i.e. a husband, kinfolk, and extreme-powered profession (in basic terms an uncomplicated interest isn't reliable sufficient). The likes of Betty Friedan and so on no longer in basic terms derided stay-at-domicile housewives, yet additionally profession women individuals who did no longer have husbands and households. for that reason coming up a difficulty the place women individuals experience a desperate could try to fill all roles, and countless (i've got faith) finally end up filling none ok (have a glance on the marriage and divorce section at right here case in point). while you're a woman, and you desire to pay interest on a profession somewhat than on a kinfolk I evaluate that completely admirable. Your predecessors, the 'New women individuals' of the late nineteenth/early twentieth centuries, additionally observed fee in a lifestyles committed to a profession. "He travels quickest who travels on my own, and that is going double for females individuals" - Florence King.