I understand what you are saying. It would be difficult to have a husband who is ALWAYS working. It's great that he's not a lazy bum and has ambition, but I would be a little frustrated, too. My husband is the exact opposite, he comes home from work and plops down on the couch and plays video games or puts in a movie. He doesn't change diapers unless I tell him to, hold our infant unless I hand him to him, he plays with our oldest as long as he can sit on the couch while doing so. I can understand that he's been on his feet all day, and I don't get on his case about it, but it does make me pull my hair out from time to time that he can't take the initiative to do it himself. Words can't tell you how badly I want to smash that PS3 of his, but I feel he deserves it at the same time. I can't say that I'd like my husband to have the same drive as yours, but I do wish he would do something other than play video games. He's 27! I find it very childish to still be playing video games, but that's just me. I don't like them at all lol.