Obsessed or not Obsessed?

Says he isn't "obsessed" with me compared to his other girlfriends in the past. He's 21 and I'm 20. We've been friends for 3 years and just started dating in September. We had also hooked up in the past. He was/is worried about our relationship and I found out he was considering breaking... show more Says he isn't "obsessed" with me compared to his other girlfriends in the past. He's 21 and I'm 20. We've been friends for 3 years and just started dating in September. We had also hooked up in the past. He was/is worried about our relationship and I found out he was considering breaking up. I just don't understand why that concerns him. He says that this relationship is so different than the ones he had and it gives him anxiety. I said to him that he could just be maturing and being obsessed with a girlfriend isn't necessary in order to love them. Was I right? Opinions?
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