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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 years ago

Obsessed or not Obsessed?

Says he isn't "obsessed" with me compared to his other girlfriends in the past. He's 21 and I'm 20. We've been friends for 3 years and just started dating in September. We had also hooked up in the past. He was/is worried about our relationship and I found out he was considering breaking up. I just don't understand why that concerns him. He says that this relationship is so different than the ones he had and it gives him anxiety. I said to him that he could just be maturing and being obsessed with a girlfriend isn't necessary in order to love them. Was I right? Opinions?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    To be honest, if a guy I was dating told me that our relationship gave him anxiety and then didn't have a valid reason as to why or how he was going to fix it, I would walk away. Especially if he's the type of guy to get "obsessed" with someone. Not healthy.

    Seriously....he sounds like he has issues.

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  • 9 years ago

    Yah, obsessing isn't necessary. I think that because he has known you for 3 years, he probably hasn't gone through that phase you do when you first meet someone. That's ok, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Obsession isn't healthy. Set boundaries and request that he sticks to them. If he doesn't and you're uncomfortable, restrict the time you two share.

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  • 9 years ago

    i think that your absolutely right . it sounds like a perfect relationship i dont think you should breakup....

    Source(s): myself.
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