My boyfriend isn't circumcised and it's kind of bugging me. I've never been with a guy who's uncircumcised...?
Everybody I know in my family and friends have their boys circumcised. My boyfriend isn't circumcised. How do I get used to it if I'm not very comfortable with it.
- Anonymous9 years agoFavorite Answer
Sorry to say this, but it isn't just a cosmetic thing. Your boyfriend being uncircumcised increases health risks for him and you. You may want to talk to him about it. I wouldn't insist, but some guys want to be circumcised anyways and are just embarrassed to look into it.
STD'sSource(s): Sexual effects/sensitivity http://www.mcgill.ca/newsroom/news/?ItemID=26068 http://discusshiv.com/tag/orgasm/ http://www.cbc.ca/health/story/2007/07/27/circumci... Cervical Cancer: http://www.consumeraffairs.com/news04/fishman/2006... http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?story... trends: http://www.jurology.com/article/PIIS00225347056041... http://health.usnews.com/articles/health/healthday... Even the World Health Organization is recommending it now: http://www.who.int/hiv/mediacentre/news68/en/index... http://www.who.int/entity/hiv/mediacentre/MCrecomm... As well as the CDC: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22425001/vp/32537110#3...
- Anonymous9 years ago
How do you mean by uncomfortable with it?
If you mean Physically, just ask him to show you how to play with it How far to retract etc.
If as I think you mean mentally, You really have nothing to worry about.
First you must put aside all that rubbish you have been indoctrinated with in the US it is ALL total rubbish there is absolutely no more chance of you getting an infection or anything else, just because he has a foreskin.
If any of this was true, do you think for one second, that the women of Great Britain or Europe would not be having their little boys circumcised?
Do you think we would not be demanding that our male be circumcised ?
Do you see that NO why because it's just not true! it's totally NOT needed
Foreskins can be great fun and help in sex in so many ways forget the rubbish you have heard and get on with enjoying a great experience!
If your wondering why Beery sounds so annoyed well how would you feel when people call you dirty and smelly without ever experiencing what your talking about.
A dirty penis, is a dirty penis, whether it is circumcised, or not, IF it is not washed.
Actually you have less to worry about with an intact male because although Beery may have come across aggressive, what he said is actually true born out by the fact that we in Europe have a lower rate of all STD/ HIV UTI than you do with your circumcised males so work it out for yourself !
just remember who tells you all this bad stuff about the natural intact penis
circumcised males ..... wonder why!
doctors who make money from performing them ....humm!
and your friends, who themselves, most likely have never experienced a natural penis, and say what they do, simply because it is what is expected of them, just I bet, as you yourself have done!
go and have fun learning !
PS sex is supposed to be fun a pleasure and there is a lot more fun to be had with a natural male as you will find out IF YOU GIVE HIM AND YOURSELF A FAIR CHANCE not just once, you will soon, as thousands of other American women have, realise what you have been missing!
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- 9 years ago
Ok, let me tell you: there's NOTHING WRONG with your boyfriend! Also, he is not "uncircumcised", he is intact. There is nothing wrong with that. That's how male body is, in all its beauty.
Sexually, you should feel no difference at all... Or you might feel better than with a circumcised guy. Being intact is better for the girl, actually, because intact guys are gentler and naturally lubricated and sensitive. Their glans is smooth and natural.
Handling an intact penis is a bit different, though. You must be gentler with him because he's more sensitive.Source(s): Personal experience. I prefer intact men. My bf is intact and he hates it, but I like it.
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- BeeryLv 79 years ago
Hell, your boyfriend is a complete, fully sexually functional and normal man and you're BOTHERED by that? What, are you crazy? His penis (unlike that of a circumcised guy) will not damage your vagina when you have sex. He will go through life without the need for artificial lubricants, Viagra or embarrassing sexual problems like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation or complete inability to achieve orgasm - things that adversely affect many circumcised men's sex lives. Yet you have a problem with his penis!
You won the sexual lottery and you're bitching about it! Ludicrous! Only in America!
- ConnorLv 79 years ago
You grow up and get over it.
It shouldn't bother you... plus it creeps me out that you metion all the men in your family are circumcised and that's why you are uncomfortable with it..... so you have been having sex with your family members?
What the hell does your family have to do with this?
This is the way a penis was made naturally.... get used it. It's really not that big of a deal.
- Lisa MarieLv 49 years ago
What's the problem? You've got a guy who was lucky enough to have his body respected at birth.
If you're not sure what to do sexually, ask what he likes.
- Dan HLv 49 years ago
What precisely are you uncomfortable with? I have a former girlfriend who strongly prefers uncut *****. She says they feel way better.
- 9 years ago
just get over it. it really shouldn't be a big deal if you like the guy. Its the way that penises were intended to look!