How to be a "real" person (personality wise)?

In school i used to hang out with jocks, most of them were pretty "fake", but hanging out with them i had gained a lot more popularity in a high school where there are around 1500-2000 students. But recently i've been talking to this real chill guy whos a life time friend material. So he brought his friends over one day and they were the "Real-ist" people i've ever met, i could tell them pretty much anything without having to worry about anything on the first day i met them. I really want to give up this whole popularity **** and just be me, but i've been such a fake person over the years. how do i be "real" and why do girls seem to love fake guys?

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  • 9 years ago
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    Stop hanging out with fake people and hang out with those who are like guy and his friends.

    You have fake people and then you have actual people.

    Good to know you've been cleared from the dark!

  • 9 years ago

    Just be real by being yourself. Be honest, do what makes you happy, and don't let what everyone else is doing influence your decisions.

    Girls like fake guys because they tell them exactly what they want to hear, because they play games.

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