Found dirty messages on my moms computer?

So I was on my moms computer minding my own business. When I went to her files to upload a YouTube video, I saw she had a file entitled "Ben". This is the name of her boy friend who I already don't care for. And this file had a picture of his penis as the thumbnail! Obviously he was sending my mom... show more So I was on my moms computer minding my own business. When I went to her files to upload a YouTube video, I saw she had a file entitled "Ben". This is the name of her boy friend who I already don't care for. And this file had a picture of his penis as the thumbnail! Obviously he was sending my mom pictures of his penis. I have a few questions.

1. My moms boyfriend says he dislikes porn. Is he being a hypocrite by doing this?
2. Should I still respect this guy? Is this a loving activity or trashy?
3. Do normal couples do this?
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