Sometimes when a marriage ends be it the first,second,third, or fourth, even fifth marriage we just can't imagine being alone, we feel rejected,confused,lost,depressed,and angered most of the time, searching for answers how,when,why,better yet why me?Stuck in disbelief that your marriage has ended not a neighborhood friend, or family member. So we search for companionship, the person who we can lean on and just cry, who will list and advise us, who'll related. Most of the time that turns out to be another man. Being a christian your still very human, however you need to really take your time and clear the past baggage before starting a new relationship or even considering marriage. Because you do have a child or children being a mother with self respect, values and morals you want to teach your child that it doesn't take a man or female to defined whom they are. You don't have to be married over and over. Focus on yourself and child for a change You aren't the first or last christian on the planet to be a single mother for a while. I did it as a christian mother of two boys and we're all doing great. I think about both my marriages and what caused them to come to an end, but if i had to make the choice again to end either marriage i would have ended them much sooner if i'd of known just how damaging it was for myself and children. Give yourself time to know who you are and what you really want and need in your life and your children's life. You have to trust and believe in God, be confident in yourself before leaping into another troubling marriage that may end before it starts..