Wait what? You ask this question like it's the women who are hard done by in this..
How unfair do you think it is for the man to have little to no control over whether he gets a woman pregnant or not, if he sleeps with her? The only thing he can do, for himself, is wear a condom - and compared to all the forms of birth control women have, condoms are pretty crap regarding keeping sex a pleasurable act (sex doesnt feel as nice for the man if he wears a condom, and they smell icky). As silly it sounds, any honest person would see why some men really dislike using them - and even if not, they can see why condoms are forgotten in the heat of the moment. (and of course, the women hasnt taken her own control of the situation anyway, despite having MANY more forms of birth control available to her).
Yet women? Multiple forms of birth control and a tonne of support with family planning in general.
Thankfully, they are developing a different form of birth control that is solely for the MAN, to give them more control of whether they parent or not. Take THAT, man-trapping bitches.