LGBT: Do you consider yourself dominant, submissive, or neither?
More as a survey thing here.
I personally consider myself to be strongly on the submissive side both in bed and in other interactions. I know some people think of that as being weak, but I'm at my happiest when I make other people happy even if, to external appearances, I'm the one who "lost."
I don't know about using top/bottom in this context because those terms really only fit with sexual situations between gay men. And while I do think I'm passive, I don't think that's quite the same as submissive. Passive does not indicate an enjoyment that comes from serving others.