Why do alot of black women never give good black men a chance but will date the irresponsible thug?

this is what i have noticed all my life im 23 years old now and i have watched how alot of black women it all starts in grade school there are alot of intelligent black men trying to prove themself to alot of black women but then again there alot of black women saying your to white, geeky, preppy, man up, to... show more this is what i have noticed all my life im 23 years old now and i have watched how alot of black women

it all starts in grade school there are alot of intelligent black men trying to prove themself to alot of black women but then again there alot of black women saying your to white, geeky, preppy, man up, to timid and run off to the thugs and like the thug act

2. the black man who gets accepted are by women of other races so if these women of other races are excepting them why should the black man turn them down and thats why there are so many good black men dating or marrying other races

3. then the black women gets pregnant by the thug and has 2 or 3 kids and by there late 20`s and 30`s and there single black women now and then they look around and cant find any good black men and say there aren't good black men

4. then they say other races especially white women take all the good black men no its that if alot of black women take interest in us (good educated black men) earlier then they do and stop going after the thugs then this wouldnt happen

5. this is a cycle there are good educated black men out here

this is what i have witnessed for over 10 years im not generalizing black women but lot of black women do this

i dont hate black women im just sick of the no good black men bs when there are out here left and right
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