Whoa! Um, apparently you've never experienced real and true love.
There is quite a difference between "making love" and "having sex."
Love, you see, is something that two people make to each other when both of them completely understand, respect, honor, cherish, etc., each other. It's when you both look into each others eyes while making love and just becoming lost together in a world that only they can only inhabit. Its when you and your loved one and the universe, life, happiness, well, every single beautiful emotion that you could ever imagine, comes together in a special moment...like two worlds colliding...no one could ever tear you the two apart....not in that moment.
Sex, on the other hand, is just that: Sex. Nothing more. Nothing less.
Don't get me wrong at all. I think sex is great, but it is nothing and, I mean, nothing compared to making love in a slow refrain.