Is it safe to call her selfish?

I just started dating a girl who wanted to do some volunteer work out of the country. We were friends long before we dated, and now that were a couple, I do whatever i can for her. I gave her $250 for when she was there...

She was gone a month, we spoke everyday but she didnt even think to get me a souvenior.

Also, she isnt working right now, and has a $400 car note and $200 insurance, plus 1300 in credit card debt, all of which her mom, who is also unemployed, is now paying...$700 a month in bills with no income...

These two things set off alarms in my head...she seems to feel bad about living off her mom this way, but shes been doing it since November of 09...

What do you think?

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  • Me
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    not necessarily selfish, a mooch maybe, but not entirely selfish.

    Source(s): Me
  • navy1
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I think she is a money grabbing, selfish, lazy person. She should stop sponging off her mom and you and go and get herself a job

  • 1 decade ago

    She seems like a spoiled princess who is manipulating her mother.

  • 1 decade ago

    YES!!! tell her...

    BUT in a respectful way, be humble.

    it's safer than worse...

    it's money you're talking about... she might be irresponsible

    Source(s): ME
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