This is such a warped view of rape, I don't even know where to start. Watch the rape scene in the film "Irreversible". Monica Bellucci gets punched in the back of the head repeatedly, her head slammed onto the floor over and over, the rapist asks her if she's getting wet or if that's just blood. Rape like that happens in real life too. Tell me how that is a "relatively natural experience". Male rape is just as horrible, prison rape in particular is grotesque and terrifying, but you don't gain sympathy for male rape by trivializing female rape.
This is what rape in war looks like, tell me how you can measure if the males suffer more than the females, or vice versa?
"Sometimes those who survive wish they were dead, as in Zernovodsk this summer, when townspeople say they were chased on to a field and made to watch women being raped. When their men tried to defend them, 68 of them were handcuffed to an armoured truck and raped too. After this episode, 45 of them joined the guerrillas in the mountains. One older man, Nurdi Dayeyev, who was nearly blind, had nails driven through his hands and feet because it was suspected that he was in contact with the fighters."
Arlo, I'm not a fat hairy woman and I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole. I'm sure you get enough companionship from the naked mannequins in your closet. You're a despicable disgusting repugnant man, and your misogyny, hatred and violence against women is only thinly veiled by your cowardice and self-proclaimed conservatism.