Isn't male rape far worse than female rape?

If a heterosexual male is raped by other male prisoners in jail, it is a completely unnatural and perverted experience as well as being against his will. A woman who is raped by a man is still experiencing a relatively natural experience since she voluntarily has sex with her husband/boyfriend. The issue in this... show more If a heterosexual male is raped by other male prisoners in jail, it is a completely unnatural and perverted experience as well as being against his will.

A woman who is raped by a man is still experiencing a relatively natural experience since she voluntarily has sex with her husband/boyfriend. The issue in this case is the lack of consent.

Yet why is male rape joked about and just accepted as a fact of prison life, whereas female rape is a "life-destroying" experience?
Update: "Unnatural and perverted" in his (heterosexual) eyes, compared to male/female sex.
Update 2: In both cases, force is obviously used so I'm not making a distinction there.
Update 3: True Brit, thats my point.
Society treats female rape far worse than male rape. Male rape is regular comedy-routine fodder. How often do you hear a comedian joke about female rape?
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