is it possible for a gay guy to fall in love with a girl?

and get boners and stuff when they hold hands, massage eachother, whatnot?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
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    sexuality is whatever you identify as. im gay and ive been mentally attracted to a couple girls in the past, even though im phyically attracted to exclusively guys and mentally attracted almost exclusively to guys. ive even made out/fooled around with a girl and she knew i was gay. it didnt mean we were in love, and it doesnt make me bi, we just have an extremely close friendship.

  • 4 years ago

    I've been on a mailing list for wives of gay husbands (the wife not knowing that her husband was gay when she married him). The stories are generally pretty similar... the guy liked the girl, thought that maybe he could be straight for her, etc, maybe even didn't mind sex (hey, if your own hand can feel good, so can a pussy)... but pretty soon, he became more distant, they had sex less often, the wife starting doubting her own attractiveness, her own ability to be a good wife... then some day she finds out he's gay, either because she catches him cheating, or because of tons of gay porn on the computer, or because he breaks down and tells her. This happens after years of being unhappily married... for some after a couple of years, for others after four decades. Lots of depression and anxiety and all that that could have been avoided if only the guys had realized that they could not be straight, no matter how hard they tried. So, if he's gay, and not bi, then please do yourself a favor and find some straight guy to date, because even if you can lure him into dating you, it might be fine for a little while but it won't work out in the end, and everyone is going to be worse off. I do agree that people aren't usually 100% straight or gay, so to some degree everyone is bi, but as someone on the wives of gay men list said, her ex husband enjoys sex with women, but doesn't miss it when he doesn't have it, whereas when he doesn't have sex with men, he craves for it. So if he's bi but mostly into men, it's better to just let him find a man. There are plenty of other men out there for you to date who are mostly attracted to women.

  • 9 years ago

    Maybe said gay guy isn't a typical gay guy and doesn't need that label. People are only truly themselves, nothing more, nothing less. So, yes, it is possible for a previously classified gay guy to fall for a woman, because not all gay guys are strictly gay. :)

  • 9 years ago

    it's very possible. i know two different gay guys who have had crushes on girls. and it can be the other way around. my friend Ian is perfectly okay with saying if a guy is hot or not he just doesn't really act on it if he thinks a man is attractive so he conciders himself straight.

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  • 9 years ago

    A gay guy can never fall in romantic love with a girl. If a gay guy falls in romantic love with a girl, he was never gay to begin with.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Hm...PRINCESS stole my exact wording.

    Impossible. If he's really gay, there is no girl in the world that he'll be turned on by & fall in love with.

  • 9 years ago

    I think your missing the point of the word "gay."

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    If you don't know what you want don't label yourself, just let yourself be, you'll fall in love with who you fall in love with.

  • 9 years ago

    That would make him Bisexual, the only way he can be gay is if he finds no girl sexually attractive

    Who the hell rated me down? Do you have anything against Bisexuals?!?!?!?!

    Source(s): Bisexual
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Maybe you only think it's a girl

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