My parents recently read through my phone and found out i've had sex with my boyfriend?

My parents recently read through my phone and found out i've had sex with my boyfriend of more than a year (and who i have also known and been good friends with since i was 14). I will be 19 in august, and they still think that they can control my actions and how i think and feel. They loved my boyfriend until this happened, and now they are threatning that if I stay with him when I go to college in the fall, my relationship with them will be in jeopardy. They banned me from seeing him or talking to him for three weeks. I am allowed to talk to him over the phone now, but they still won't let me see him. I have been completely miserable this past month. I feel like they took away my best friend for a reason that has absolutely NOTHING to do with them. Am i wrong in thinking that they are completely insane?! I realize that i am not a fully grown adult, but i believe that i am old enough to decide what to do with my body, especially because we were very safe about it. I have gone along with their punishments and been very respectful by listening and taking into consideration what they have to say about it (even though they have had some rude and hurtful things to say about me and my boyfriend), but I don't know how much longer I can just put up with being treated like this. Any suggestions?

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  • Éilis
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    This seems very extreme. Did you ask them why they don't want you having sex? I'm 18 in 4 weeks and my parents know I've just started having sex. Mum brought me to the doctor for the pill and told me to come to her if anything goes wrong. I think it's your decision whether you have sex or not. They're probably just scared.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you are old enough to decide for yourself what to do with your body, you are old enough to move out of their home and pay your own bills so you dont have to 'be treated like this'.

  • 1 decade ago

    stab them with scisors and drown em in the bath tub and throw them in the garbage.

    Source(s): saw it on the news
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