Is it weird for a 17 year old girl to date a 14, almost 15, year old guy PLEASE HELP?

Is it wrong for a 17 year old girl to date a 14 (almost 15) year old guy?

I didn't realize how young he was.... but I really like this kid. What do I do? I feel so stupid. But I like him so much.

I don't like how desperate it makes me feel though...

But he pursued me...

12 Answers

  • 10 years ago
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    it would be less weird if he were 15

    i guess

    my bf was 17 and i was 15 at one point

    and now im 16 lol

    so yeah i guess its fine

    answer mine too please?

  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    As long as you both truly love each other it wont matter, just make sure hes not using u 2 be going out with an older chick

  • 10 years ago

    & what will happen when u hit the age of 18? & u going out with a 14 year old?

    • james4 years agoReport

      It will only be a problem if charges are pressed which won't happen if the parents are cool with it

  • 10 years ago

    yeah kinda but in away not really cuase my parents are 2 eyars apart and someone down the street is 15 years apart and there stil married now it might seem weird but its not really

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    hmm.. well I've seen a lot of relationships like that..

    and to tell you.. the longest I've seen was2 years.. then he cheated on her (he was younger).. so I don't know.. the trust could be differenet and maturity is not at the same level.

    its not weird, its happened before..

    just take caution i guess

  • 10 years ago

    think about when u turn 18 and he is still a what if he persued u? most guys would love to date an older woman lol and u called him a kid....thats what he is....stay away

  • 10 years ago


    you guys are just at different points in life along with the age......if that made..any..sense

  • 10 years ago

    thatll be a boring relationship haha

  • 4 years ago

    It is perfectly fine

  • 3 years ago


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