I truly believe that the only way to cement a romantic relationship with a man is by having a child?

I know they say kids don't keep a man but it is a lifelong commitment so why not? if the relationship is good or bad I truly do believe a child is a way to emotionally cement that man into your life? I know many people will disagree...so why do I honestly feel this way? Do you know any women who have... show more I know they say kids don't keep a man but it is a lifelong commitment so why not?

if the relationship is good or bad I truly do believe a child is a way to emotionally cement that man into your life?

I know many people will disagree...so why do I honestly feel this way?

Do you know any women who have done this and how did the situation turn out?

I need "help" I want to get this dumb notion out of my head

I'm 24 I should know better
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