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請英文高手幫忙翻譯這兩段英文(請勿用翻譯機)

請英文高手幫忙翻譯這兩段英文(請勿用翻譯機) The good news is, breaking this habit iseasier

than you might think. Once you see how truly nasty the

habit is, the rest seems to fall gently into place. At

first, you might not notice yourself being critical until after the

fact. You’ll remember when it’s too late. Don’t

be hard on yourself.

Instead, be grateful that your

old habit came to mind and that your goal is to stop doing it.

The next time, you might catch yourself right in the middle

of a conversation about someone else. You can then say

something like “Whoops, there I go again being critical about someone

who isn’t even around.” Then gently shift the

conversation. At some point, it will become easy. You’ll

feel yourself about ready to be critical but stop short of actually

doing so. You’ll “see it coming,” observe your own

thoughts and behavior, and nip them in the bud. In

time, you’ll rarely be critical of others when they’re not around. Even when the people around you

are talking about others, you can gently refuse to get involved. Instead,

you can guide the conversation elsewhere by remaining quiet, saying

something nice, or defending the person being criticized or changing the topic

altogether. The benefits of being less critical behind

the backs of others can be dramatic and instantaneous. Give

it a try and you’ll feel better right away.因為急著想知道這兩段話的完整意思...所以...請高手們一定要在今天晚上12點前幫忙!!感激不盡~!!

Update:

不好意思= =

不知道為什麼英文貼過來就變成這樣歪七扭八...

請見諒...

Update 2:

請不要把英文直接拿去翻譯網站翻譯後貼過來敷衍回答= =

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你的回答一看就知道是翻譯網站的...

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  • joe
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    好消息是,戒除這個壞習慣,比你可能想像的還容易.一旦你看到這個習慣,是多令人厭惡時,其餘的事就會慢慢到位.一開始你自己可能在事情發生前,都沒注意到你在批評人家,當你想到時,已經太遲了.別對自己太苛刻,相反的,你要感激你這老毛病出現在你心裡(譯者註:就是心裡想到了),而你的目標是戒除再犯.

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    下一次你可能在談論到某人的當下,就抓到自己,然後你就可以說些像:"唉喲!,我又在批評某人他甚至不在場!"接著慢慢轉移話題.到了某個程度,就會變得很容易,你將感覺到自己要開始批評,然而在真正要批評的當兒,就制止了.你會看到它要來了,觀察你自己的想法和行為,在它萌芽時,就把他掐住.這樣你就很難得批評不在場的人了.

    甚至當你周圍的人在談論別人時,你也能夠慢慢的拒絕參與,相反的,你會以保持緘默,說些別的事情,或為受批評的人辯護,或轉移話題的方式,慢慢的把談話導向其他地方.減少在別人背後批評人家,它的好處可能是即時,而且戲劇化.試試看,你就會立即感覺奇佳.

    Source(s): me
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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

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  • 霈玲
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    好消息正傳播開你可以思考的這習慣。你看出骯髒怎樣真地,其餘好像溫柔墜入地方。

    ,你可能不注意到你自己直到在事實之後批判性。 你將記得什麼時候是太遲的。

    對你自己刻薄。

    相反,感激是你的舊的習慣被想起是和你的目標是停止做它。

    下次時,你可能使你自己正在關於其他人的一次談話的中間。

    你那時能說類似箍,在那裡我再次去挑剔甚至不在周遭。

    然後溫柔地轉移談話。在一些點,它將變得容易。 自己關於準備危險地著但是實際上如此做。 你意愿來的,觀察你自己的想法和行為,並且在萌芽時掐去他們。

    及時,當他們是不在周遭時,你將很少挑剔其它人。

    即使當在你周遭的人們正談論其它人的時候,你能溫柔地拒絕被包含。

    相反,你能指導談話在別處在保持安靜,說東西好,或者辯護人批評或者兌換時。 作為其它人的不那麼關鍵的背的好處可能戲劇和即時。 一嘗和你感覺好點立刻。

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