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- Anonymous10 years agoBest Answer
Well, you can research those definitions in the dictionary... but here's my take on physical attractiveness.
Don't get too obsessed with your looks, because personality is the ultimate hook for most guys in a long term relationship. You don't need to be drop-dead gorgeous or a perfect 10. Most guys would prefer a cute girl rather than a 10. Why? Because a 10 is usually high maintenance, spoiled, vain, selfish, unappreciative, arrogant, useless... and a 10 would probably also have expensive tastes.
Guys look for different things in a girl, depending on his age and maturity. What do guys look for?
Typical young immature teenage guys:
1. Hot body
2. Cute face
3. Hot body
4. Willing to fall for their lines of crap
5. Hot body
Typical players and creeps:
1. Hot body
2. Dumb enough to fall for their lines of crap
3. Hot body
4. No Dad or big older brother to protect her
5. Hot body
Typical mature & decent guys:
1. Nice personality (not too clingy, not too dramatic, not an airhead)
2. Nice body (hot would be good... but not required)
3. Cute face
5. Not a sl*t
Do you notice a pattern there?
Just be cautious about the types of guys you date... and how you behave, too. Why? Because lots of teenage guys tend to be frogs… not princes. Because teenage guys will typically want to go way past kissing if the girl allows it. Because many teenage girls are simply too vulnerable, too impulsive, and too emotional. Because lots of teenage girls frequently have poor judgment. Because teenage guys are typically only interested in what's in a young girl's panties. Because teenage guys often don't care about a girl's feelings. Because the types of teenage guys who are bold enough to be dating are frequently focused solely on satisfying their own selfish desires. Because teenage girls tend to equate love with kissing and sex (translation - they get their heart trampled), while most young guys don't (translation - they simply say "See ya later!"). Because after the inevitable break-up, a teenage girl will likely feel as though her world has collapsed. Because any older guy who would date a young and vulnerable teenage girl is a creep.
So, how do you go about getting a good BF? Wait until you're about 16 or 17 (to give those frogs a chance to grow up), and make sure your parents say it's OK to start dating.
Before you start hunting for a BF, if you have some guy friends... give them first chance. Look them all straight in the eyes and tell them that you want to start dating and this is their big chance, because you're available and will be looking for a good BF... and you don't want to hear any blubbering such as "Gee, I always liked you but thought you weren't interested! Blah Blah Blah" after it's too late.
Then just be nice to a couple of decent guys, smile at them, and ask a few questions about whatever you both might have in common (homework, school, music, teachers, etc...). They'll ask you out. If they're too stupid or too shy to ask you out (which will be likely), then you ask them out instead. If a guy says "no", laugh and tell him he's an idiot... most guys like a girl who's funny and honest, and he might change his mind.
So, want some more free advice? OK.
Exactly how do you get a guy to like you and keep him interested? Just be nice, pleasant, and friendly. Don't act like a sl*t, or you'll only succeed in attracting complete jerks who will then proceed to wreck your life... and make your parents really mad at both you and the jerk you've hooked up with.
Young guys and young girls are typically very unpredictable... including you. Don't get too wrapped up over who likes who, because the next day it could be completely switched around.
Don't expect too much from a teenage BF at first, or at least until you both get to know each other better. Statistically, it won't last anyway... so just enjoy spending time with him and have some innocent fun together. Don't be too dramatic, and don't be clingy. Don't over-analyze him too much.
Watch out for those handsome players or creeps who might pretend to like you, because you could easily fall for their phony attention and smooth lines of crap. Beware - they'll use your body and then dump you like a sack of potatoes.
No matter what, don't date any older adult guys who pretend to be interested in you. They're even worse than players your own age... and like the players they'll only be interested in one thing... and it won't be your mind.
Decide on your physical limits before you start dating, and stick to those limits. Getting too excited while being together with your BF is not the time to start thinking about setting limits... your judgment will be clouded, and your BF's judgment will be long gone. No, I'm not kidding.
Keep your panties on until you get married. That'll eliminate 99% of the creeps, losers, and players... and mistakes of passion... which will make your life much happier and simpler in the long run. You'll also be protected against pregnancy, STD's, and excessive heartache.
Don't make too many stupid decisions, don't drink booze or take drugs, don't have friends who drink or take drugs, listen to your Mom and Dad, read the Bible (the Gospel of John is a good place to start), and then everything will turn out fine.
That's all there is too it, BWE.
.Source(s): Repetitive Cylindrical Logic Link to some good dating advice for young ladies that was recently posted on Yahoo! Answers - http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ans04...
- richardLv 43 years ago
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- 10 years ago
beautiful = out of my league
hot = slutty looking and good for sex only
cute = i want her and hope to get with her
gorgeous = i'll masturbate to the thought of her later