How to style my hair like Katherine Moennig?

I have the same cut as her but i want to style my hairr in this way. My cousin says to put hairspray in it but i dnt like the way it gets really hard. Is there a way to style it like this without getting stiff and hard. Heres a... show more I have the same cut as her but i want to style my hairr in this way. My cousin says to put hairspray in it but i dnt like the way it gets really hard. Is there a way to style it like this without getting stiff and hard.

Heres a pic
http://www.pollsb.com/photos/o/194488-favorite_katherine_moennig_shane_l_word_pic.jpg
or
http://images1.fanpop.com/images/photos/2500000/katherine-moennig-katherine-moennig-2530668-1000-793.jpg
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