I stopped calling my baby father when he told me to get an abortion, baby's three months now. I didn't even call him for doctors appointments or scans....or anything, I still don't call him now. He by luck called me just as my waters broke & I told him & he came down when she was born, otherwise I might not have called him to be honest
Don't get me wrong, he's in his baby's life in a big way, but I will never pick up the phone and call him, only talk to him if he calls me.
The reason: He told me to get rid.....I wasn't gonna & will not let him reject my baby, if he wants to be a dad it's on him, he's got to make the effort
If you like her and wanna make a go of it, it's time for you to really put the work in, you've given her what she wants already, sounds like she's realised she can make do without you, if you're gonna be a jerk, what does she need you for? ... that's how I feel