Who the **** is ever going to want to marry me with the family I have?
She literally kicked me out of her house 7 years ago, and I haven't been back since. The house is a nightmare, and that's another story altogether (innumerable pets and immeasurable cleaning to do). I've been thinking a lot about my future lately and starting a family since I'm close to getting my first undergraduate degree, and I've even met a guy that I'm kind of nuts about. She knows I've changed my major, and thinks I'm going to start making "big bucks" once I graduate, so she's already saying I could "start helping her with her mortgage and bills". If she does find out I'm making more money, I will never hear the end of it.
She WILL NOT get a job, and SHE IS NOT DISABLED. She's a lazy, manipulative, lying person for the most part. What if I want to get married? And have children? And start a family? Am I still going to have Lady Loser hitting me up for money, popping my house unannounced and guilt tripping me into enabling her shiftless lifestyle? I don't think there's a man on the planet that wouldn't want that mother-in-law committed. I can't imagine any man- no matter how much he loves me- wanting to marry me once he finds out what he's getting himself into. How do I commit this woman???