If some one looks a little boyish, does that mean that they have a penis? No matter what a woman looks like, she is still a woman. No stubble, no hairy chest, no big and clumsy hands, and best of all, no penis!!! People look they way they do because it's what they like and what they are comfortable in. The women who date them, date them because they feel loved and happy, not because it's like being with a man. I'm a pretty feminine woman, and I've dated all kinds of girls, from ultra fem to pretty damn butch. I go out with the women that I do because of the way I feel when I'm with them! Do you like your "feminine women" to use dildos on you? ME, myself being feminine, like.....women. So whats the deal with that? Can't we just stop with the picking on each other? If you honestly want an answer, then just ask. You don't have to be condescending about it. IE "isn't the whole reason to be with a woman, to be with a WOMAN?"