My pregnant ex wont talk to me?
I will admit that I did try to persuade her into having an abortion and I was very hostile with her! I even dragged her to the clinic and she acted as though she had the abortion!
It got to the point to where she even contacted a lawyer friend of mine via email to tell me to stop contacting her as I put her under so much stress that she went into labor and had to stay in the hospital for 2 days.
I was angry with her as our relationship ended VERY badly, I got so angry with her I pushed her into the wall and she sent a return slap and she attacked me and ripped my shirt clear off my back, she at the time had no idea she was pregnant. I of course called the cops on her. After the years of being together she had never attacked me like that before, but I guess I had it coming. When she told me she was pregnant I even went to her house and she filed a restraining order against me.
I have gone to anger management to control my temper and work on myself in the last three months
I have tried to contact her nonstop for the last three months through email, friends, my attorney etc.
I want to be there for her and my baby but she ignores me. She has only told me through email that I could go to the doctor appointments and the parenting classes with her, but she does not speak to me before or after the appointments or even during the appointments. I also want to be at the birth of our daughter too!
She doesn't even want child support from me.
I want us to be at least on speaking terms for the sake of our child, how do I get her to speak to me?
I know that I was really wrong for the way I acted in the beginning and I am working on changing and I feel like my child is my reason to change.
Anyone been in my situation!