Cultural and translation question!! English to tagalog?

Ok i want to knw from a traditional filipino family how i would go about apologizing to the mother of my girlfriend? We been together for two years and my girl barley told her mom and she scolded us sayin were too young which we are but we still keep it tradtional meaning no sex before marriage. But i know her mom... show more Ok i want to knw from a traditional filipino family how i would go about apologizing to the mother of my girlfriend? We been together for two years and my girl barley told her mom and she scolded us sayin were too young which we are but we still keep it tradtional meaning no sex before marriage. But i know her mom is upset that we "hid" it for so long so i wana know what is better...a letter of apology or a in person? She speaks good english but i have a feeling i would get more respect that i at least know a few formal words in tagalog.
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