IT IS MESSED UP! YOU ARE TOTALLY RIGHT!
She shouldn't be having sex, she is still a CHILD. Anyone who answered thinking CHILDREN having sex is even right or furthermore moral HAS SERIOUS ISSUES! 13 YEAR OLD CHILDREN HAVING SEX IS OKAY? I'm SORRY ut WHAT THE ****?!? She is not old enough to handle the emotions or consequences of sex! People are saying "oh mind your own buisiness, it's her body" but no one AGE 15 is old enough to have sex! She is disrespecting her body and she should save having sex for when she's an adult. besides the consequences of pregnancy, stds, emotional, reputation etc. All you can do is talk to her, people are right you can't control her decisions, you can however talk to her and make good decisions for yourself!
Giving in to one’s hormones at the drop of a hat is not romance. This is lust, and while it may be spontaneous and temporarily exciting, using another person is not romantic. In fact, too many good romantic relationships have been ruined by lust.
Only humans are capable of romance because romance is where imagination and love meet. Sometimes a person’s actions may appear romantic because they are so imaginative and thoughtful, but the actions may be done for the sake of seducing another. This is not romance, because love is absent. Only when purity is present can one tell the difference between loving romance and selfish seduction.
In fact, romantic moments do not require physical intimacy—and the most romantic couples are the ones who realize this. They know that romance requires respect. You can have lust and passion without respect (as in prostitution), but you cannot have romance without respect. When that loving respect for the other person is present, a man stirs up his romantic creativity not for the sake of getting something from a woman but for the sake of expressing his love to her.
Lust, on the other hand, is boring, because it allows no room for mystery and anticipation. Everything secret is given away. The pure have more passion than the lustful, and it is precisely their passion that gives them the ability to build a greater kind of love. They exercise self-control not because of an absence of passion but because of the presence of love.
A twenty-three-year-old woman pointed out that there is something exciting in restraint, something that makes a chaste couple seem to glow in their wedding pictures. She proposed that chastity “may be the proof of God, because it means that we have been designed in such a way that when we humans act like animals, without any restraint and without any rules, we just don’t have as much fun." In fact, people who have misused their sexuality are longing for enduring love. They know that being loved is much
more exciting than being used.