Ummm christianity question about abstinence?

Do you believe anal or oral are considered loosing your virginity for that matter? And what if you give it to someone but they dont give it back? I know this sounds like a dumb question but I just really want to know? And guys is it a turn off if a girl wants to wait? Like not so much of a turn off that you... show more Do you believe anal or oral are considered loosing your virginity for that matter?
And what if you give it to someone but they dont give it back?
I know this sounds like a dumb question but I just really want to know?
And guys is it a turn off if a girl wants to wait? Like not so much of a turn off that you would dump her but just a kind of thing that you wouldnt like?
Thanks for answering :]
Update: And I meant "if you give it to them but they dont give it back" as in you give them oral/anal but they dont give it back.
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