How to be less shy around girls....?

I am 19 and in college. I just joined a fraturnity and it seems that the only thing that matters is how many times you can have sex with girls. My issue is I get very shy and awkward for some reason whenever i go to parties and what not, i think it is because i am a virgin still.... i am close with many attractive... show more I am 19 and in college. I just joined a fraturnity and it seems that the only thing that matters is how many times you can have sex with girls. My issue is I get very shy and awkward for some reason whenever i go to parties and what not, i think it is because i am a virgin still.... i am close with many attractive girls but i feel that i am looked at as a friend and simply just as "cute". Any advice?
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