let your daughter know that what people say about other people doesn't really matter, especially when you love someone. what puts a dimension on anyone else's personna. life is what it is; and, no matter how other people try to make it appear, it doesn't change what it is inside a person. nothing will ever change that. outside appearance is not something that God wanted other people to judge us on. if you love, and truly love someone, it's not what they look at that you admire and love, it's what in that person that make your world and the world of the people that you love. i hope she can get that, because the sooner she does, she'll not only love you, but, she'll also love herself. you don't have to deal with anything. it's up to your daughter to realize what people say doesn't really matter, as long as you have someone that loves you. appearances fade and should not matter. that is not what life is all about. life is the beauty that makes a person.