'relationship rescue' by dr phil mcgraw. ' the proper care and feeding of marrige' by dr laura.
the proper care and feeding of husbands, also by dr laura. the proper care and feeding of wives, again by dr laura.
the 7 habits of highly effective familes, by stephen covey.
if you were to sincerely read these 5 books, i would have to guarantee, and i mean guarantee, that you would feel better about many facets of your life, now armed with insight, priceless insight into what makes things work. why? because research and observation have made information available that was not readily available before.
i absolutely positively 100000% guarantee this answer.
couldnt agree with you more, new agey or religious 'self help' books leave me cold. give me an intelligent, wise, easy to follow common sense book to fill in the chapter i may be missing.