my friends arent nice to me?

i have riends at school who arent nice to me they call me stupid and i dnt havve much in common with them and there on my b ball team i can tell they dnt like me but i mean they spend the night every weekend ive been there 3 yars and havent been asked once im not a nerd i hang out with the athletes like me and they think there above me they all make fun of me how do i control myself and not loose like i want to but i feel like im kepping it bottled up

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well obviously they are not your friends, cause friends dont each other this way. I assume they tolorate you. You are not accepted by them and put up with you only because they have to. Dont

    let them deter you and continue to be who you are.

    You dont owe them anything and regardless of how they treat you......you can be so much better by being true to yourself and treating people right. Based on my experiences most of the girls in this

    group are fake and under peer pressure.

    I know you want to be accepted and its ok to try to be, but as time goes on these so called friends

    will relizehow ignorant they truely are....good luck......dont let them bring your self confidence down, they want to tear you down to make themselves feel better about their own inadiquicies.

  • Jordan
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If they treat you that way, they're not you friends.

    Just don't worry about what they think of you and find people that you do have things in common with you and that respect you. (It doesn't matter if someone's an athlete, nerd, artist, or whatever) Just be friendly and try getting to know people that will like and respect you.

    Also, if you have a problem with someone, just tell them. If nothing else, it will make you feel better and will clear the air.

    I hope this helps.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, that's what friends do when they try to act cooler in front of other kids. Then when she calls you bc everyone else can't hang out she will be like want to hang out. She is basically using you as a back up plan or something. And if you're pretty she might just be using you to be like i'm popular girl who have FRECKEN pretty girls around me every day HA HA HA. Seriously i had the same problem bin there. i would just leave her and go find other friends and not talk to her at all. And if she asks why aren't you talkin to me be like, really you use me for a BACK UP PLAN! SSeriously just leave me alone. :D :D :D

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    that's so sad iam sorry feel better..i would say tell them to leave you the f alone or you will beat their @ss lol jk when they Talk about you crack on them i mean some people are like that my friends did the same to me just try it that way develop tough skin around them.. i had to because i know how sensitive i get. show them your not afraid and you dont take no sugar honey ice tea

    Source(s): me
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Earn social acceptance by beating up their "leader"

    If you need help with that take an MMA class or something.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    They are stupid, just don't even worry about them. There are so many other people in the world.

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