Have a crush on husband's friend?

I have been with my husband for 4 years, and he is the only man I have ever "been" with. He has a friend that I absolutely adore, and a few weeks ago my husband said I was flirting with him, though he laughed it off and so did the friend. Then I realized I WAS actually flirting with him. It was disturbing... show more I have been with my husband for 4 years, and he is the only man I have ever "been" with. He has a friend that I absolutely adore, and a few weeks ago my husband said I was flirting with him, though he laughed it off and so did the friend. Then I realized I WAS actually flirting with him. It was disturbing and the more I thought about it I realized I actually have a crush on this guy and have fantasized about him since. Do you think this is something I should address with my husband or maybe I should avoid this friend of his like the plague? What do you think is best?
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