Diaper Brand: Pampers...I find Huggies leak and they dont sell Luvs where I live. This is something you will have to try though as every parent finds certain diapers fit differet.
Carriers: Moby Wrap by far is the best. I have a Snugli and a Sling and the wrap carriers are awesome. If its not your style then try an Ergo carries as I head they are easy on the back too. Sling killed my back and so does the Snugli
Wipes: Pampers or Parents Choice but basically anything unscented and alcohol free works
Bedding: I bought a Winnie The Pooh crib set but now I wish I never had because baby should never sleep with the comforter and I dont feel safe with the big bumper pads. If I had to do it again I would buy a crib skirt (I like the look of them) a few flannal sheets and breathable bumpers (just got some from walmart today)
Diaper Pail: I have a diaper genie but only because we live in an apartment building and I cant get down to the dumpster often enough to get rid of dirty diapers. If I had a house though I wouldnt bother.
Matress: We have a Simmons firm matress
Changing Pad: I think we have a Jolly Jumper change table pad and then a Kushies brand diaper bag one
We use Stork Craft furnature in her room, Crane brand humidifier, Safety First monitor and baby kit (thermometer, nail clippers, bulb syringe) Evenflo travel system (hate travel systems though....wish I never bout one and just got a convertible carseat) Eddie Bauer diaper bag, Fisher Price Ocean Wonders swing, Baby Einstein play mat, Evenflo Exersaucer, Playtex Drop-in bottles, First Years Mini breastpump, Penaten Diaper Cream, Johnsons baby products, Baby's Own soap, Purex Baby Soft laundry soap, Bath eze, Dr. Brown's Formula Jug, Nestle Good Start Formula
Not saying this stuff is the best out there, but its what we use and we like it.