LGBT: How long did the whole "finding yourself" phase last for you?

I remember I used to identify as a gay guy......

wow.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    aww I love this question! :)

    I don't know why. It's probably because I don't know if I'm a lesbian or not and I'm really trying to find myself. It really is helll...I mean, I know my parents would accept me and it doesn't matter if I am gay, but I still can't come to a solid conclusion that I am. I like guys. They're hot. haha. But then I imagine myself with a girl....it's hard.

    :(

    But your question made me happy..haha.

    Source(s): :]
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  • Elle
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    1 decade ago

    Four long years for me! I too, identified myself as a gay guy first. Ha. At least I finally know who I am now. :)

    Source(s): Me - Transsexual teenage girl
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    All high school, I didn't do anything but chores, study, and babysit. After it took about two weeks for me to talk to someone I'd known all my life when I finally had the opportunity, and even though I had moved in with my grandparents to manage a house I found time to spend with him and talk about me.

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  • dude
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    My first experimentation was in kindergarten with a classmate. I didn't think about it for a while, but in 4th grade I was homophobic and trying to hide feelings. Then Sophomore year I finally accepted myself.

    so about 10 years

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  • 1 decade ago

    It started around the middle of my Sophomore year and lasted until around the end of my Junior year. However, I think I'm still trying to find myself so I guess about two years? :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    2 three year relationships with men, scary first girl crush, a lot of alcohol, a lot of mistakes.

    But having peace now from knowing who I am - it was hard, but well worth it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    unfortunately for me I'm still in that phase. Three years and running. *sigh*

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    5th grade to this August.

    It was like the worst thing.

    But now It's just like you only live fun so lets have fun living.

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  • 1 decade ago

    it took 3 months for me to come to the conclusion i was bisexual

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  • uh its was my in supreme denial stage. two years. was heeelll.

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