What are 20 questions I can ask the girl I'm dating to promote a deeper level of disclosure?

I have been dating a girl for the past 2 months, I am looking to start getting into a deeper level of self disclosure with her. In my mind it seems easy but when i try and think of questions to ask to start deeper conversations I get hung up. Does anyone have any ideas on 10 to 20 questions I can ask? Seeing them in written form might help jump start my mind! thanks

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    Random Questions to ask a Girl,Your Girlfriend

    What were you like when you were a kid?

    When was the first time that you had beer?

    What happened?

    If you had a billion dollars, what would you do with it?

    What would your dream house be like?

    If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?

    Where’s Waldo?

    Do you dream often?

    Describe your fighting style: drunken master or angry monkey?

    What last made you laugh?

    Spontaneity or stability?

    Do you like kids?

    If you wrote a journal entry about our last date, what would it say?

    Which do you prefer giving or receiving?

    What is your favorite word?

    What is your least favorite word?

    What turns you on creatively, spiritually or emotionally?

    What turns you off?

    What is your favorite curse word?

    What sound or noise do you love?

    Interesting Questions to ask Your Girlfriend or any Girl

    What is your full name?

    When is your birthday?

    Who do you live with?

    What do you do for school and work?

    What music do you listen to the most?

    Do you like to read? If so...favorite book(s)?

    Name your 3 closest friends. Which one is your very best friend?

    How often do you really "go out"?

    Have you ever lost anyone you loved?

    Ever been in true love?

    On a scale of 1-5 how organized are you?

    Do you excercise regularly? If so, how often?

    What is your zodiac sign?

    Have any nick names? If so, what?

    Name a couple of T.V. shows you watch a lot?

    Good First Date Questions to ask Girls, Your Girlfriends

    Name a movie or movies you can watch over and over?

    Do you have tattoos? If yes, how many and where are they?

    Any piercings? If yes, how many and where are they?

    Do you have siblings? If so, how many?

    Are your parents still together?

    What is/was your worst subject in school?

    Do you currently play any sports? If so, what?

    Do you like to dance?

    Name your 2 favorite colors and why?

    Do people tell you that you act older, younger, or your age?

    Ever had an imaginary friend as a child?

    Ever been skinny dipping?

    Did/Do you enjoy highschool for the most part?

    Do any drugs? If yes, what?

    Do you drink? If yes, how often?

    Do you smoke? If yes, how much?

    Ever been in a physical fight? If yes how many and who were they with?

    Have you ever cheated in a relationship?

    Questions to ask a Girl or Girls on First Dates

    What's your definition of cheating?

    Do you wear pajamas to places other than at your house?

    Have you ever stolen anything from a store or from someone?

    Ever cheated on a test?

    Ever been in any legal trouble?

    Do you regret anything?

    Name 5 of the most important things in your life?

    How many languages can you speak and what are they?

    Are you a touchy feely person?

    Do you take showers in the morning or at night more?

    Do you trust easily?

    Do you have any phobias?

    Are you a heavy or light sleeper?

    Are you a morning person?

    Ever had surgery? If yes, for what reason?

    Ever come close to death?

    Ever broken any bones?

    When you die, would you rather be burried or cremated?

    Do you play any instruments? If so, what?

    Have you been told you can sing well more than once?

    3 physical features you get complimented on a lot?

    Name your least favorite feature?

    Name the clothing store you shop at the most?

    Personal Questions to ask a Girl or Girls

    What is your religion or do you not really have one?

    Ever been cheated on?

    Ever had a one night stand? If so, how many and do you regret any of them?

    Current friend that you have known the longest?

    Name someone you can tell just about anything to?

    Where were you born?

    Do any of your close friends have children?

    Are any of them married?

    Have you ever taken any anti-depressants or anxiety medication?

    Ever seen a therapist?

    Did/do you transfer schools a lot?

    Favorite animal to have as a pet?

    How many floors does your home have?

    How many bedrooms and bathrooms?

    Do you live in a neighborhood or in the middle of nowhere?

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

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  • 5 years ago

    Random Questions to ask a Girl,Your Girlfriend

    What were you like when you were a kid?

    When was the first time that you had beer?

    What happened?

    If you had a billion dollars, what would you do with it?

    What would your dream house be like?

    If you could change something about yourself, what would

    Personal Questions to ask a Girl or Girls

    What is your religion or do you not really have one?

    Ever been cheated on?

    Ever had a one night stand? If so, how many and do you regret any of them?

    Current friend that you have known the longest?

    Name someone you can tell just about anything to?

    Have you ever played with yourself?

    Where were you born?

    Do any of your close friends have children?

    Are any of them married?

    Have you ever taken any anti-depressants or anxiety medication?

    Ever seen a therapist?

    Did/do you transfer schools a lot?

    Favorite animal to have as a pet?

    How many floors does your home have?

    How many bedrooms and bathrooms?

    Do you live in a neighborhood or in the middle of nowhere?

  • 4 years ago

    well for starters, she's already yours. she can't really judge you for saying you want to take your relationship to a higher level. you never know, she may be waiting for you to make the first move, and maybe she will turn out feeling the same way. just ask her simple questions like; I really like you, from the beginning I've wanted more than what we have already,and I think now is the perfect time to step up and takes things to a higher level.

    something like that, or just prove to her. I would tell her in person rather than a text message so you can see the reaction on her face. I hope this helped, and good luck.

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  • 4 years ago

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  • 5 years ago

    There are plenty of questions that can be found out there on the web the most important thing is when you ask the questions. I f a like a girl I will tell her lets play 21 question and let her start so she can set the pace. All of this will take place over text or email for two reasons. 1 so i can always go back and remember her answers and 2. even if i see her in person i wont really bring up the questions its more like a totally different convo always and can last days and go past 21 questions if she pleases. by then you both will have an idea of who youre dealing with.

  • 4 years ago

    You don't want to ask two many on a date because she wont be able to get a chance to ask you.... Be a polite young man and don't ask things

    to personal. I recommend stuff like this:

    1. what's your fave chocolate? or what's your fave movie?

    2. what's ur dream job?

    3. Do you have any siblings

    sometime u just need to say the most randoms things...it dosent really matter what you ask because she is ur girl friend

  • 3 years ago

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    4 years ago

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  • 5 years ago

    Girls love stuff like this, but not on dates! We can make a party for girls and interview each other all night long!) But on a date you should implement these questions in conversation thus she percieves it natural and you're an interesting person! The questions should be tricky and should bring you two fun, don't concentrate on them too much. Your aim is to have great time with her so your inner journalist will wake up just when he's needed) In case you'd like him to practice - go to https://kovla.com/ and expertise your interviewing skills and - who knows - maybe you'll find your love!) Good luck!)

  • 4 years ago

    1/ Why am I such a dick?

    Relationships (I mean real ones, not ones you read about in books) don't rely on garbage like "a deeper level of disclosure". Get over yourself.

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