I dated a stripper years ago(the preferred term,actually,is "dancer"),and I was seeing a former one just last summer. In the first case,she was an awesome gf! Funny,intelligent,open-minded but grounded and completely monogamous! In fact,she had fewer on her "had sex with" list than ME! In the second case,last summer,she was also terrific(although a tad posessive). Dancers,or "strippers",are usually NOT the hump-machines that you think they are,that's the ILLUSION that's being sold to you in the "Gentleman's establishment" where they work,it's not reality. There's exceptions,of course,and THOSE girls can be out there,but a chick who works a pole is no different than someone who works a keyboard,for the most part. Just a girlie doing a job,having some fun when she can and gettin' paid.