there's a big difference between putting yourself out there in a slutty way, and putting yourself out there in a friendly way. some guys might like the shy thing because its innocent and sweet. but most guys wont approach you if you show an extreme lack of interest in them. imagine if he never looked at you, would you even talk to him? he could be shy about asking a girl out to, no guy wants to be shut down. and though you may be shy, you have to show some confidence, if you read any magazine, guys are always talking about how sexy it is. you don't have to wear little skirts and low cut shirts to be sexy, and get the attention you want from a guy. you don't have to be loud, or talk to him even to get some attention from a guy. if hes telling a group of people your with a joke, giggle, or relate it to something that may have happened to you. and if you don't hang out with the people a guy hangs out with, just make it a point to at least look at him and show some teeth with a small smile.
· 10 years ago