I need life/family advice?
Anyway, I'm a college freshman and while I don't want to be an idiot and get all mixed up in my own life like when I was a younger teenage idiot, I'm also seeing the bad effects of staying with my family (trying to help them all out) and trying to live my college life to the fullest. I've been including my younger siblings as well as the one older bro in my activities, as well as helping them go and prepare for college or some other post highschool education. So far the middle child (one of my younger bro's) is far more well rounded than my other three siblings and I know he will be fine. The other one in foster care ( the youngest bro) is basically a lost cause and he is actually doing better in foster care. But my older bro and little sis ( she is 16 and he is 20) are still making the wrong decisions and no matter what I've tried to do so far it's become pretty clear that they continued to do wrong. I don't want to abandon my family again, but I don't want to lose my mind over how much I care for them and wish for them to be ok. I just don't want to abandon my family. I'm torn, how do I help my family and myself at the same time, not to mention the fact that my fiance cares for them all too and especially my wellbeing; it's starting to take it's toll on him too. Any advice. Sorry if it's too long, gotta learn to articulate what I want to say with less words. (^_^)