Black culture has taught black women that cocky men with swagger and bling are sexy. I think men like this look like children, and are full of BS, lines, and player tecniques (gross). I like a confident man, but also a humble one who respects me, and doesn't try to overcompensate for his low IQ, and crap job, with shiny fake jewelry. These men are sooooo shallow. Not all black guys are like this, but I am talking about the ones with "swagger" as it is usually perceived in the back community. Like I said, sincerely confident men with high self esteem and a small ego, who approach me with something unique, interesting, and sincere to say are very sexy to me.... no matter the race.