OK, I'm in a critical, not to mention cynical mood, but I'll try to be good. You sound nice. First of all - why should you go first? If you oral him first, you'll never get anything back. Guys blast and droop, y'know. No recip. Is it worth it? Secondly, guess what you smell like at the end of a day? I like the taste and smell, but lots of guys require perfect pink cleanliness and no hair. They have no idea about real down and dirty sex. But I deviate from the main message. Third, his crank and the twins have probably been protected from the world by clean underwear since he showered in the morning. How dirty can the junk be? Yeah, a little sweat may have trickles down and when he ppissed he may have allowed a drop or two into the underwear, but urine is the most sterile liquid in the world. Thanx to the kidneys!! So you are faced with clean wigglies, a bit of honest sweat, a bit of uric acid, and a horny boyfriend. Putt hem all together and they spell 'unthinking boyfriend.' Add 'selfish' to the tile if he insists you go first. (You know darn well he'll never follow with his own kneel down for you.) Why don't you find a guy that suggests a shower before sex (or better-doesn't care) and allows you to wash all his privates. Then after he's got you in 7th heaven, you can drop below his navel and enjoy clean skin and good smells. Does any of this make sense? As a guy, I am ashamed of the boys who want everything from their gals but won't reciprocate AT ALL. They seem to think you'll do anything to keep them. You spoil the jerks!!