What to get wife of 34 yrs for Christmas? Forget jewerly, clothes, perfumes, spas, cooking for her, candies...?

Okay is is kind of a "tom boy' so forget all of the "girlie stuff" what doesn't work is clothes, jewelry, perfumes, spas, I already cook for her and make her favorite candy and help around the house with cleaning, doing laundry right now. She is the family's CFO and when she sees something she wants she just buys it. I don't want to give her "work things" like kitchen appliances which we have already. Her favorite thing is the pets, 4 dogs and 2 cats so cannot really give her any more. Okay, in 34 Christmases I hit a home run once when I got her a cell phone, a red wagon she wanted since she was a kid, and she is a NASCAR fan so I bought her a "Richard Petty Driving Experience" so she could go eight laps in a NASCAR. I sure would like to hit another home run... help!


Sports Event? She is a NASCR fan but she has a skin condition so she cannot be in the sun for four hours. Car? About two years ago we went car shopping and con't find EXACTLY what she wanted, So we ordered it from the factory. It took about 8 weeks but she has exactly what she wanted. Oh, we have a gym menbership...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    donation to the SPCA

    name a start after her

    buy a piece of the moon(I forget the website but you can by a piece of the moon there)

    something for her car/truck like a remote starter\1

    digital video camera

    tickets to a sporting event

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    perhaps she is basically drained. you do no longer say how plenty she works or if she is in a severe rigidity job. that could desire to be a area of the challenge. Is the marriage greater healthy? that could additionally be a area of the challenge. regrettably, if a woman is unhappy or worried approximately different issues, they do no longer desire having intercourse. it is likewise time for menopause the two pre or lively. This motives a shrink in estrogen that still could desire to impression her desire. Or she could desire to basically be bored with it after 34 years. It dosen't recommend she dosen't love you or desire to be with you. I even have the alternative view of maximum in this internet site. i'm valuable you sense like she is being egocentric, yet there is an underlying situation at the back of this. Why do no longer you ask her and notice what she says. i will inform you from my own adventure, that my guy did all the failings you assert yet he quite plenty exceeded over me something of the time. It grew to alter right into a significant turn off for me because of fact I felt as though the only factor he needed me for became intercourse. It made me sense undesirable and it made me sense low-value.

  • 1 decade ago


    Merry Christmas!

    What's for this Christmas Day?

    Replica fashion handbags,

    boots,hats,clothes,shoes,jewelry,jeans or others?


    Merry Christams and Happy New Year!


  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    cell phone accessories

    computer accessories

    closet shoe organizer (California Closets have cool ideas)

    Birdhouse or Bird Feeder

    Decorative garden stepping stone

    Stone drink coasters

    Monogrammed towel set or robe

    Framed Nascar poster

    Charm bracelet with Nascar charms


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  • 1 decade ago

    Tickets to a game of her favorite pro sports team

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Get her a Picture Book

    Thats what Im getting and NO I didnt ask for it and Im thirty four yrs old as well

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Take her on a cruise, or for a weekend away in the city, and get a nice hotel.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wow sounds Like Having you is the greatest Gift she could have ;Youre so thoughtful.

  • Alex
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Check this for more Christmas gift ideas http://www.amazon.com/b/?node=384082011&tag=top-ho...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    get her a footy top i know you said forget clothes well get hier sporty stuff

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