how to talk dirty to my boyfriend during sex?

my boyfriend and i were talking about what more we could do for each other during sex and he said that he would really like if i talked dirtier to him while we do it. he said i was kinda quiet. i wanna please him but im not sure what to say... Help!

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  • eddie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    The answers would be too graphic. Watch some porn, you'll get the idea.

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  • Judith
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    It's not abnormal or weird, some men just get really into the moment. And he might even think it turns you on. If you don't like what he's saying and it really bothers you, then try to express to him that his dirty talk does not help you feel sexual, and it makes you uncomfortable. Tell him if it makes you feel degraded and you would rather that he keep silent. If he has to talk then let him know he needs to be more affectionate & tasteful in what he says. And if he can't handle that, then you should really consider finding a new boyfriend. Sex is supposed to be a mutually pleasing experience. On the other hand, i can tell you that most guys are very quiet, and talking and moaning can really be a turn on...it just has to be done in a respectful way. Try to get into it if you can, i know it may seem awkward and strange at first but you might find that you like it. Sex gets better when you are open to trying new things... so experiment with it. : ) Adult toys can be fun too. Be open minded, it can help your sexual relationships from becoming boring or routine-like.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him that you love the the way he feels. You love the way he makes you feel. Tell him what you want (harder, softer, faster) or tell him he's doing just right. Tell him he knows exactly how to touch you and make you feel good. . Tell him you love his..., you get the point. you can talk dirty to him without making it uncomfortable for you. I'm sure you are having lots of feelings going through you while you two are intimate. Let it out verbally. If the mood calls for it use a few choice words... I'm sure you can think of them.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Say what you want him to do to you , or express that what he's doing feels good , or ask if he likes when you're doing ...

    BUT

    Keep it cute and not too graphic and not too much in each session , you don't wanna sound like a cheap hooker.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ask him what would work for him, the kind of phrase and the kind of persona that excites him. But don't get so involved in pleasing him that you lose yourself. If you are doing it all for him, if the experience doesn't work for you or even makes you feel degraded, don't do it. You are better off alone than giving away a piece of your soul.

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Am doing long distance relationship and I wanna talk dirty to my man . Am getting bored lately and I wanna keep the conversation on .

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  • 1 decade ago

    Harder/Faster, thing's like that.

    Tell him how good it feels. moan more than usual, if you're quiet.

    Guys like to know they're doing something right, & by you saying

    "I love your d(i)ck" or, deeper, or something, switch up the positions.

    Things to make it more interesting. Even tell him how big his d(i)ck is,

    & how good it feels inside you, even if it is small..

    Source(s): Sex?
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just tell him what you're thinking, like how good it feels to have him inside you. And tell him what you want him to do. Moan more too. Guys just want to hear that they are doing a good job.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If he wants it to flow, in the words of Emeril, maybe he needs to kick it up another notch...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    simply tell him what feel good. tell him what you want him to do. if he is doing everything right tell him that too. you don't have to get crazy with it. just tell him how good it is.

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