If you were dating a guy, how would you drop hints u want him to do things like hold your hand, give u a hug or kiss you.

ESPECIALLY how would you drop a hint saying u love him/ want to kiss him?

Most guys don't get these hints (i don't, so could u plz explain them?

Thnx in advance


Also. I am a guy

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  • 1 decade ago
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    ok well these are hints and tips for u. hope they help :D

    1. Touch her waist.

    2. Actually talk to her.

    3. Share secrets with her.

    4. Give her 1 of your sweatshirts

    5. Kiss her slowly.

    Are you remembering this?

    6. Hug her.

    7. Hold her.

    8. Laugh with her.

    9. Invite her everywhere.

    10. Hangout with her and your friends together.


    11. Smile with her.

    12. Take pictures with her.

    13. Pull her onto your lap.

    14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.

    15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

    Are you thinking of someone?

    16. Always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.

    17. Kiss her unexpectedly.

    18. Hug her from behind around the waist.

    19. Tell her she's beautiful.

    20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

    One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

    21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car (if any)- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.

    22. Tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it.

    23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.

    24. Make her feel loved.

    25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know


    26. DON'T lie to her

    27. DON'T cheat on her!

    28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

    29. Text messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.

    30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.


    31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.

    32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.

    33. Kiss her on the CHEEK: (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).

    34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.

    35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.


    36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.

    37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.

    38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so you can cuddle.

    39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.

    40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible


    41. Call or text her EVERY night to wish her SWEET DREAMS

    42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.

    43. Take her for LONG walks at night.

    44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her.

    45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.

    46. Rub her back--feels good

    47. Give her your coat if she's cold--thats always cute

    48. Write letters on her back with your finger--feels good ;D

    49. Let her sit on your lap

    50. DON'T poke her hard...but if you want to mess around just do it lightly.

    51. HOLD her HAND in PUBLIC.

    52. Even if she looks BAD one day tell her she's BEAUTIFUL

    53. Keep conversations about anything usually they just go along with it.

    54. If their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionatley and gently.

    55. Surprisingly sneek up on her and hug her from behind--loves it.

    56. Kiss her in the rain.

    57. Pick her up like in The Notebook and kiss her.

    58. Slow dance with no music

    59. Don't ignore her or be nerveous around her--everything is going to be okay.

    60. Love her, kiss her, hold her, and you'll be good to go. ;D

    this will make her love u and want u more than ever. if u dont want to do the kissing stuff yet, hold off

    Source(s): me
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  • 1 decade ago

    Right before my boyfriend and I started dating I would play with his fingers and make sure I always had my hand on the side of me ready to hold, even when I want him to grab my hand I'll put it right beside me for him to get the hint. If I wanted a hug from him I would drag on the goodbye and follow him a few steps to the door or something and if he was dropping me off I would keep eye contact with him and I usually did the hugging goodbye in the car because it's more difficult for the driver. Whenever I wanted a kiss I would constantly lick my lips (people do this when they are nervous or think they're about to kiss in this situation) I would also stare at his lips or put my face close to his. After a GOOD WHILE in the telling someone I really really like you a lot is a good hint on the I love you thing. I think it's best to love each other as friends first though. Like my boyfriend and I, as friends, got into a fight and it was a huge misunderstanding and he said, "You know I love you tb(our nickname for each other) I'd never do anything to hurt you." Good luck catching the hints.

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    Source(s): I'm a girl haha
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  • 1 decade ago

    how about skipping the hints and just doing that stuff to him yourself. Hint just means control/manipulation.

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