any advice on how to know for sure?
i'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend, i'm a senior about to go to college and i'm not sure if the relationship is strong enough to work out, if we stayed together, we would go to the same college
is there anything beside gut feeling that helped you decide for sure, i'm thinking of something along the lines of a pros and cons list but maybe better
- Nels NLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think the fact that you can see your future without him speaks volumes. If you're not 'feeling it' and you can see your life without him, it sounds like it is all but over anyway.
If you do choose to break up, do it honestly and honorably. If you're still friends, you can get back together in the future if you change your mind (and he's still available).