It doesn't matter if you said yes to it once, if you were saying no afterwards. He is a rapist if you were trying to get away and he held your head there. The bottom line, though... "no" MEANS "no"...FORGET about the bastard and move on. The guy is a horrible person. The best way to protect yourself is not to isolate yourself drunk with people like that, and go party with people who have your best interests in mind. Just walk away from people like that guy. Feel free to kick/hit guys in the balls who try to force you to do anything.
The people who said that you consented are high. Just because you agreed to it, after you were telling him no, then you went to the bathroom to make out, and were telling him no... that sounds like one yes in the middle of a million nos. In sex "No" means "No", even if you're already in the act, have changed your mind, etc. I hope you men out there realize this and aren't ******* scum like many of the rest. Go masturbate to a ******* porno... women are only *** buckets when they agree to be.
· 1 decade ago