Spider Identification HELP!?

We're originally for Des Moines, Iowa. My boyfriend is deafly afraid of spiders and minutes before going to bed we notice a LARGE spider on the bed frame. We have googled and googled and not found a thing that looks like the spider we found. We're both scared of spiders, but more afraid of brown recluse... show more We're originally for Des Moines, Iowa. My boyfriend is deafly afraid of spiders and minutes before going to bed we notice a LARGE spider on the bed frame. We have googled and googled and not found a thing that looks like the spider we found. We're both scared of spiders, but more afraid of brown recluse spiders and their damages. If a picture is attached can anyone help us identify this spider? We're in Kansas City, Missouri which is basically Kansas CIty, Kansas. Let us know if you can help!
Update: It looks similar to that, but the legs are skinnier and the back almost has yellow spots. The hairs on it's legs are spread out and very noticable. It's not really furry though...it's butt is more narrow than the body and almost looks like it has a stinger on it. It is probably an inch and a half with... show more It looks similar to that, but the legs are skinnier and the back almost has yellow spots. The hairs on it's legs are spread out and very noticable. It's not really furry though...it's butt is more narrow than the body and almost looks like it has a stinger on it. It is probably an inch and a half with legs span. It is very quick. It is a darker brown on top of the body and the butt. Thank you very much!
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