Awww...honey, as parents we are quite overprotective of our children which can sometimes harm them and lead them to make wrong decisions and choices in life. I think it is great that he is working, he wants to be a part of your and the baby's lifel...now it wasn't said why your parents don't like him nor want him to be their for his child...but I can only assume they look at him as bad person for doing this thing to their daughter...but they must realize and accept they are only going to do more harm than good trying to separate you two, not to mention a baby is involved...but no matter what, if the childs father wants to be a part of that childs life and he is not bringing any harm or chaos into your lives, then they are going to have to accept it or you will have to move on...and hope that one day they will come around. They also must realize it is a good thing he still wants to be there and his parents are actively invovled. Perhaps you all need to sit down, first you and your parents and then all four of you and even the other parents if need be and get every thing out on the table; everyone should be able to be open and honest about how they feel about the situation and why. You are nearing to adulthood now and have a responsiblity of your own, that I am sure burdens your parents some as well. Understand parents aren't perfect and don't know eveything, but some of the knowledge we have is based upon life experiences that perhaps we don't want our children to experience, So don't be against them, try to show them you are responsible, go to them and open dialogue, don't only talk when it is an argument, and set the ground rules for the discussion...everyone must listen to and respect one another.